Cars or Cribs?

This question was asked by my homeboy to the ladies on his email list. The replies were funny as hell, especially their reasons behind their opinions. I'm sure you all will recognize my reply out of the bunch...it looks like something that only a writer/blogger would write, lol!




Having a detailed discussion with my ppls .. This is to my ladies friends ..

Question ..
What do you prefer for a dude to have , a car or place of his own !?
Please don't say both , one or the other & why if possible ..

I'm over here going in on my mans who drives a nice car for chicks but can't
have company at home with mommy , OMG! LMAO!

Thanks


REPLIES:


LMAO!

1. Def the crib we can't stay in a car all the damn time

2. What up ___,I just got out of class so sorry for the delayed response.
Bayyyyyyybeeee please have your own apartment. I do not want to sit up in the
living room w/ mommy & em'. If you are a grown a$$ man please have your own
apartment, house, etc. A car would be nice but privacy is much better!!!!Hell I
can take the A train or a cab to his crib Lol

3. His own place def....... No grown ass woman wants 2 be in a niggers have 2 sneak
and fuck like the 14 years old. Ill rather take the subway to his house.No
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4. Either 1 of those missin, it aint gonna happen!!

5. Car. I have my own place...

6. Ummmmm a crib please & thank you

7. A House... A man over 30 should have his own place!!! Now I can give a break to
a dude that fell on hard times and has to move in with mom's. But after 6
months to a year he needs to be OUT....

8. His own place! Too old 2 be dealing with a dude living w/mommy.

9. His Own place b/c we can take the train or I can drive my car. Lol
Mamas boys & womanizers have those qualities not real men

10. Place of his own!! My crib is the batcave, niggas can't come here (hands all in
his pants- feet all on my table) lmfao. Fuck that I don't care where you live
I'll fly cross seas if that weewee right but you can't come here maybe if I
blindfold you lolololol

11. Omg I so rather the apartment a car is nice n all but wen u can't come home
after 10 because ur moms is sleep then we gotta problem

12. His own place

13. I say car nevermind a crib... I got my own shit! ;)
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14. Definitely a dude with his own place. I aint too good for a metrocard!

15. His own damn place. What the fuck who wants to be a roomie with your mother?

16. A crib because even tho' the car mayb nice & convenient...The MTA & TLC runs 24
hrs...lol How about privacy...??? You think mama wanna see the last night's
catch (fish)...Just a thought...

17. Hey ___ he needs his own place!! We can take cabs anywhere!! Lol

18. I'd rather smash a guy with a car. Just bc they have a car doesnt mean its for
chicks. It just means that they are tired of relying on the MTA or a chick to
drive them where they need & want to go. What female doesnt want a guy to be
able to come pick her up...especially if she drives? Geesh! Who said I wanna
drive all the time? Especially of you're in another borough, etc...so now we
have to meet up ALL the time at places that really arent convenient.. And, oh
yeah, did I mention that I'll NEVER get that chivalrous feeling of the phone
call saying that "I'm outside", and can ride passenger once in a while? That
sure ass hell is a good feeling, that I'm sure that all the dudes w/o cars can
relate to, lol. I cant deal with a guy without his own form of transportation.
Its just gross... Metro cards are for middle school/high school kids in nyc.

Not every guy that doesnt have a car necessarily lives w mommy. Personally, I
could care less about a guy's living situation. Just be able to go outside, get
in your car & (if you've been a good boy) head to my place. If we're just
fucking/messing around, then I dont mind going half on a telly. Shit, better
than fucking at my place. Let's see... $40 on a telly, or constant Metro Cards,
cabs, donations of gas money to MY tank bc I had to pick your non driving ass
up. Or if we're not fucking, us both driving & meeting up to go to dinner,
movies is perfect bc it leaves the freedom for one of us to leave if we aren't
feeling it, and it also leaves room for us both to have options after the date
is over.And if he is living w mommy, that's his issue, not mine. I aint fucking
ole girl, I'm fucking him. So be ready to go outside & start that engine when I
want some. The best part about it, is that I can send you home to mommy after I
nut(or baby momma, bro, roomie, whoever) and not have to worry about getting up
@ odd hrs of the night to drop you off at the train or even worse, take you all
the way to your place. And just in case you're gonna say "well what about
staying at dudes place"... Just not my cup of tea. Plus, I STILL HAVE TO DRIVE
THERE..Or what, are you gonna send your "O.J" cab to come & get me & take me to
your place? Forget about it....Lol

19. a car... come ova 4 a few hrs & afta that i don't care where he sleepz
long as he kno it aint in mah bed!

20. His own place! Don't wanna tip-toe out...or be quiet during sex. Wut if I wanna
walk around nekkid...cmon. Ugh screw a car...we can cab it....or train...I'm not
to good 4 the subway! We r in nyc

21. Place of his own because that represents a stable foundation.

22. A car don't mean shit if u driving to a shack or home to mommy.

23. A place of his own......its 2009 time to leave the nest. Its nice to go to his
house and relax instead of mine all the time

24. Lmao keep going in on him..cause his ass should have his own place...hands
down...

25. Lmao.. You aint no good, leave ya friend alone.

But in all honesty his own place, when kept in proper condition is a lil easier.
Car, you can get picked up and dropped off but that's about it. Not the saving
grace of Mom walkin while her son on top or you on top of him. So own place is a
lot more realistic by a certain age.

26. Hands down his own place... A car don't mean shit to me u can always take a cab
or the train which is kind of romantic at times hense tryna go to the telly and
u tired as hell and check out is at 11... COME ON! That's not wus up! Lol

27. I would prefer him havin his own place! We can always use my car or public
transportation to get around! Havin a car is so overrated! Lol @ no company @
mommies house! OMG!

28. Hell nah own apartment/home bump that you can rent a car, take a cab or swipe
metro cards together. You can rent an apartment and no grown independent women
is going to no damn short-stay in 09. Only hotels are on vacation or weekend
getaways. Is he SERIOUS??

29. That car note is a rent pymt.

30. OMG def a place of his own.....what type of backwards ass nigga gets a nice whip
b4 he gets a nice crib? He need 2 get his priorities in order A. S. A. P. !!!
LMAOOOO

31. No car, great career, home/apt, whatever he prefers, goals works best for me...
We can take cabs if need be. A car is not security. A home is

32. Home. There's nothing like having your own place. Privacy is a must on every
level. Surely its much more important then a car. Hell MTA or cab service won't
hurt for a couple of months.

33. A CRIB. Duh!!!! U cannot take off ur shoes & lay up in ur mans car. U can't cook
for him in his car. U can't do any of the domestic things we females like 2 do
in ur CAR!

34. His own crib. What's sexy about a grown ass man w a dope ride pullin up to his
mama garage. Or worse projects. Gawd forbid

35. An apt. Definitely. A chicj should have her own shit if she likes to ride.

36. I'd rather him have a place of his own, no fun if u can't spend the night. And
don't have to worry bout momma comin in talking bout "son its time for your
company to head home". LOL sound like momma got u on a curfew!

37. I think his own place cuz we can take a cab or a nice train ride, but going 2
hotels or coming 2 MY place all the time isn't the move!!

38. I would rather my man have his own place .. We can be comfortable there watch
movies and chill .. Maybe because I gotta car but I would still prefer my man to
have his own place

39. Wait did u say can't have company ? Lmaoooo is he 16 or sumthing. Smh !!!
Definatley own place !!!

40. I prefer a man to have his own space. Its more personal and free. To visit a man
who lives with family or friends is uncomfortable unless you guys are just cool.
Intimately its better to have his own.

Besides I can always take a cab!

;o)

41. Lmao, u gotta b kid n me. I rather him have a crib. Shows he responsible, he got
his own, lol.

42. A place of his own of course. We can always hop in my ride or catch a cab. But
I'd rather have an option on whose bed I can lay in for the night (his or mine).


43. I rather him have his own place I agree we can't have privacy @ his momma's
house? Shit I have a car we good!! N I don't live with my mama!! Lol we r more
than good we greatttt!!! Lmmfao

44. Definitely his own crib!!

45. Car. I hate driving all the time. And I have my own place so as long as he's
driving here, I don't have to get up :)

46. I prefer for a dude to have his own place first! Cars are nice but if u got a
car and livin wit ya moms that's soooo not cute!! Place, then car!

47. A place of his own. I have a car. We can work that out!

48. Own place !!!!!

49. Fuck a car I can take a cab to ya crib as long as u got ya own crib. I don't
want ya moms knockin on ya door while we knockin da boots !

50. A home where we chillin @ his car?! Lmao

51. Lmfao!!!! Home/apt/room/basement apt. E. All of the above.

52. You can fuck inda car but then what??? Lol. Smh.

53. HIS OWN PLACE!!!!!!!

54. A nice place of his own... Shit I drive so we good.

55. A place of his own... Wtf he can't wash hus ass in his car or cook a meal...
WORD!!!

56. Own place. I like privacy. I can drive to him

57. His own crib!


Thoughts?? lol..